This 2025! It Is Okay to…

By Dr jarlath Uche Opara

It is okay to reprioritize, shade off and refocus. It is okay to move on , leaving behind things and people that weren’t productive previously. It is okay to reduce time spent with frivolities and persons of parasitic tendencies.

It is okay to cut off ties with people and things that derail one without empowering. It is okay to say no to some requests , not all requests are meant to say yes to. It is okay to break ranks with toxic relationship, never hold on to it for a second, it drains.

It is okay to set boundaries, never to break it no matter who is involved. Boundaries is’nt inhuman, it is all about monitoring what comes to you and what goes out. It is okay to limit sometimes how often one circulates, scarcity adds values to one.

Not everybody should be allowed to come so close, some are better related from a distance. Never try to impress all , you will end up getting depressed. Never live your life on the validation of others, only you wear the shoes of your life and only you have a feel of how it feels.

This is 2025, it is okay to censor who you allow in yours space, your space should not be for all Tom, Dick and Harry. It is Okay to hug yourself with great delight, dote on yourself and make yourself a priority after God. This 2025, it is okay to give oneself a treat, massage yourself, self love is’nt a crime. It is okay this 2025 to block anyone on social media who is nothing but a curse, a nuisance , a temptation and a garbage.

This 2025, it is okay to admire the achievement of others but it is not okay to fashion your life around such achievement to the point of it being destructively competitive.
It is okay to love everybody, it is not okay to make everybody a friend. Some are better related from a distance.

2025! Never allow anybody to impede on your confidence, your self confidence is a prize nobody has the price except you to buy. Never get intimidated by the features of someone else, we all have our strenght and weakness, none is all round complete. It is okay to lend money, but it is not okay to lend money you would’nt be ready to write off. The truth is 60% of money lent, seldom comes back.

2025, a beautiful year to be a Christian without adjective. Just being a Christian!! If one can be a Christian, just a Christian, one would be fine.

2025! A year to be just a Christain!!

Dr. Jarlath Uche Opara
Jarlathuche@gmail.com