MY SEXUAL HEALTH TIP FOR COUPLES TODAY IS: HOW TO KISS 💋

By Dr. Adesida Adewumi

Many couples have been married for many years but up till now they don’t know how to kiss. Kissing is not just about sharing saliva with your partner. It is about expressing your passion and love to them.

It is about connecting with them at a deeper level.

What is kissing? : Kissing is touching or caressing the body of your partner with your mouth, lips or tongue.

There are two major types of kissing: dry and wet kiss. Wet kiss is also known as french kiss. Wet kiss simply means saliva is exchanged while dry kiss means no saliva is exchanged. Both of them have their advantage and disadvantage.

The reason why many people kiss is because lips have the highest number of nerve endings in the body (most sensitive part of the body).

Probably this is the reason why Research has shown that 90% of people kiss. There is 10% of human beings that don’t like kissing and they don’t engage in it. Research has also shown that 90% of women don’t enjoy sex without being kissed first and about 10% of women will not have sex until they are kissed because they won’t be aroused without being kissed. Kudos to the nerve endings at the lips. Another reason why people enjoy kissing also that they don’t know is saliva contains testosterone (sex libido hormone) so the more deeply you are kissed, the more aroused you become.

*HOW TO KISS*

If you have it in mind to kiss your husband or wife, there are some preparations you need to make in advance for them to enjoy it:
1. Avoid taking garlic or onion or any smelling food
2. Avoid having dry or cracked lips. Apply gloss
3. Brush your mouth fresh
4. Have a fresh mint breath
5. Women don’t like to be kissed in the public. Note that. They like privacy
6. Study the mood of your partner. It is not everytime your partner wants to be kissed.
7. Also note that kissing has different purposes so make sure you are ready to give the right kiss at the right time. For example your partner is not in good mood, kiss them on the forehead and leave them for that moment, you are in the public, peck them and leave them for that moment, you are in the private, right environment and right mood, you want to kiss as foreplay before sex, then below is how to kiss as a couple.

Having met all the above terms and conditions, this is how to kiss to arouse your partner before, during and after sex in the closet:
1. A good kissing starts with looking into your husband or wife’s eyes. Fix your eyes into theirs long enough for tension to start building up in them
2. Eliminate the space between two of you to let your two lips touch gently. Start your kiss from the mouth. You can kiss other places later
3. Start slowly. No rush
4. Hold their cheeks with your two hands as you focus on their mouth first. Kiss them with mouth closed first. Then move to mouth open then lock tongues with the tip of your tongue doing most of the job.
5. Explore their mouth with your tongue. Don’t put your whole tongue inside their mouth.
6. Be aware of how your wife or husband is responding to the kiss and continue accordingly. You can increase your pace according to theirs. Do more of what you observe that they like.
7. Nib them in their lower lip biting them gently. Also nib them in their ears too.
8. Don’t forget to breathe intermittently because kissing can be so full of passion that you can forget to breathe and pass out.. lol
9. As you are doing a good job in the mouth of your partner, don’t forget to caress other sensitive parts of their body like stroking their hair, caressing their neck, lips, nipples, breasts, navel, clitoris, vagina, penis, bumbum, inner parts of their laps. Combining kissing with this caressing of their body can make them moan seriously and deeply and can even take them to orgasm (maximum pleasure).
10. Then after this you can progress to kissing the rest of the body, all those sensitive areas you have been caressing since ,kiss them now as you bring your kissing to a close or progress with it to penetrative sex depending on what two of you want.

*20 BENEFITS OF KISSING YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE FREQUENTLY*
1. It increases your bond and love for each other because during kissing a lot of love hormone (oxytocin) is released into your body.
2. Increases your level of happiness
3. It increases your level of euphoria
4. It reduces your stress
5. During kissing, husband and wife may use the 2-34 muscles in each of their faces to kiss. Kissing is an exercise for face muscles. It makes you look younger everyday
6. Kissing reduces high blood pressure
7. It reduces cholesterol and help you lose weight
8. It reduces risk of stroke
9. It reduces risk of heart attack
10. It reduces headache
11. It reduces cramps during menstruation
12. It reduces anxiety
13. It boosts immune system
14. It reduces depression
15. It increases self esteem
16. It increases sex drive
17. It makes couples to have more sex as most kissings end in sex
18. Kissing reduces allergy
19. Less fights and disagreement in the marriage
20. More lasting marriage.

NOTE: Kissing (especially wet Kissing) can also lead to transmission and transfer of bacteria and viruses between the two people involved. This is one of the reasons why you should stick and stay faithful to your husband or wife!

*The writer of this piece is DR ADESIDA ADEWUMI (FWACP). He is a consultant family physician and also a specialist in family sexual health. He is on all social media as @familydoctor_blog except on Facebook as @from inside my consulting room. Contact me on WhatsApp on 08068649694. Share this write up with your family and friends and follow me for more on my social media pages. I also do seminars and public speaking if you have audience to educate. Thank you*